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A Day without Learning, A Day Wasted

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What colleges have you attended?
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A year ago, I had this to say about this prompt

Distance Learning: The School of Hard Knocks

I still firmly believe in the benefits of distance learning, and online advancements have made it even easier. Since I first made this post, I’ve looked into the number of colleges and universities available, and the results are staggering. People who want an Ivy League education can take courses from those institutions for free, and many offer affordable online programs.

I started saying a mantra as a teenager.

“A day without learning something is a day wasted”

Everyday, I try to learn a new skill, add a layer to existing one, or practice. So, take the time to look into the programs that might interest you. Have fun and good luck!

To be Young at Heart

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Do you play in your daily life? What says “playtime” to you?
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A year ago, WordPress asked this same question. I responded with the post below.

I Don’t Have Time for This … I’m a Grown @$$ Man.

I faced many challenges during that year. These challenges have reminded me that there are more important things than I ever imagined. It is very easy to get lost in the mayhem of life. One of the most important things we overlook is remaining young at heart. It’s important to remember to enjoy every opportunity.

Throughout my adult life, I have often lost sight of enjoying the little things. But I’ve learned to appreciate them in the past year, and I’ve rediscovered my love for the creative arts. So, “playtime” for me is diving deeper into my creativity. I love to see what I can create. The creative arts have helped me heal and kept me sane during one of the most trying times in my life. So, pick up what you use to enjoy yourself, then go crazy.

Excuse me while I make up a silly story and create bizarre images.

Quality vs. Quantity

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What are your thoughts on the concept of living a very long life?
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I never expected to live a long life. However, I’ve lived longer than I ever expected. SHOCKER! Yet, I’ve learned a few things along the way. In the time I’ve spent on this earth, I’ve learned that in almost every aspect of life, the quality of how life is spent is more important than the amount of time spent. I’ve been blessed to have talked to several elders, and they mainly agree that its the quality of life, not its longevity. I tend to agree.

Where Do I Start?

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What do you complain about the most?
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I’ve reached the age where complaining seems like a superpower. Of course, this expands my current superpower of ranting at the drop of a hat. Not to mention, I drop a few justified gripes when it’s called for. Yet, there are times when I remain silent, but I can’t be held accountable for facial expressions. So, if I think you’re jackass; I don’t have to say a word. My face says it all.

However, lately, the thing that chaps my ass the most is people’s lack of compassion for others. It seems we don’t care about each other like we used to. I get it! Times are different. People are different. I’m no better. I can go days without talking to another person. I’ve always been that way. Anti-social is what they called me. So, trust me, I’m not casting any stones.

I’m sure you have noticed people are walling themselves off more now than ever. As if they prefer interactions on their devices rather than actual human conversation. Another thing I’ve seen is that when you are having these conversations, they aren’t actually listening. There are a lot of head nods and other indicators they aren’t paying attention to, but they are meant to fool you into thinking you’re having a meaningful conversation.

Alas, don’t fret. I, too, have been fooled. We need to slow down, stop, listen, and help one another.

We have to do better; we are better!

Tales of the Gridiron and Pickup Games

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What are your favorite sports to watch and play?
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For the first part of my childhood, my favorite football player was Mean Joe Greene, even before his Coke commercial.

I wore a mesh replica of his jersey every day. I was obsessed with him. I wanted to play football as well as he did. Maybe even play for the Pittsburgh Steelers and be a part of the “Steel Curtain.” As it turns out, I was way too small to make as a football player then. Yet, my love of the game never wavered. I played pickup games with the older kids in the neighborhood but never reached the skill level to play organized sport.

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When I wasn’t playing football I spent hours on the basketball court. First, we played horse. After a while, we graduated to 2 on 2 and other variations of the game. I mostly played on the playgrounds around town, but I did try out for the school team and made it. I played for a couple years. However, neither basketball nor football proved to be my sport, but I enjoyed playing. I still enjoy watching them.

Something Good … I Hope

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What would you do if you won the lottery?
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I’ve asked myself this question more times than I can count. I’ve even fantasized about how my life would be different. I wouldn’t wind up like those people you hear about who win millions and end up broke or worse than they were. I would be smart, I’d tell myself. Honestly, I probably wouldn’t fare any better than some of the previous winners.

However, I hope I would. Solely because, as of late, I have a different mindset than I did previously. Over the last few months, I’ve been severely ill. I know I have been putting up a good front, but cards on the table; I nearly died a few days ago. If my brother hadn’t rushed me to the emergency room, I don’t think I would be here. What was strange about the whole affair is that I had no clue how sick I was. Though I feel good now, it won’t take much for me to be in danger again. So, I guess I’m still in trouble.

Due to my health, I haven’t been working, so my income has taken a major hit, but I’m okay. I have to face the fact I may never return to work. This is not ideal but may become a necessity. I’ve had to examine needs versus wants.

  • A Veteran’s Home – I would like to provide some assistance for veterans. There isn’t enough assistance for the veterans. Improvements have been made, but more assistance is needed.
  • Elderly Services – I feel we need to do better about our elderly. Many programs are available for the elderly, but like most things, there isn’t enough to go around.
  • Assistance for Persons with Disabilities – There aren’t enough services for people in this category. Yes, there are services, but there are so many rules or qualifications that individuals become homeless or, even worse, perish before getting the necessary services.

Homelessness is a subject near and dear to my heart. Do you realize many of the homeless fall into the above-listed groups?

I realize that winning a big pot of money won’t solve this problem, even though I wish it would. We need good-hearted people to come together and keep things going. Maybe this a dream of a feeble-minded old man, but this is what I would do. Perhaps, it would provide some good … I hope.

A Little of This… A Little of that.

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What books do you want to read?
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I can’t remember a time when books weren’t a part of my life. My grandmother had the first library I had ever seen. There was a room off the living room filled with books of all sorts. I swear she had read every book. I assumed everyone had a library in their homes, but I soon learned that wasn’t the case. My grandmother got me started with my library. First, it was those Reader’s Digest Condensed Books.

I collected books on various subjects throughout my childhood and early adult years. Unfortunately, I lost nearly every volume I had collected. When I told my senior editor of my plight, she informed me that I would have a larger library better than any library I had previously built. She sounded so confident that it was hard not to be enthralled by her confidence.

Here we are over a decade later and have done just that. Together, we have built a small but impressive library with over 3,500 physical books, not including periodicals and albums. My digital library is well over 20,000 titles, not including movies, music, and journals. I know I will never read all these titles, but I can research most subjects without turning on a computer.

I remember sneaking into university libraries and getting lost in their shelves. Now, I do the same at home. So, the answer to the question is relatively simple. I read a little of this and a little of that.

It’s Simple

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What are your biggest challenges?
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My biggest challenges are getting out and staying out of my own way. It’s that simple. I wish it was more complicated than that, but it isn’t.

Saint Rita, Can You Help Me?

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What’s your dream job?
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If I’m honest, I really only wanted to be one thing: a writer. As a child, I told and wrote stories, which landed me in more trouble than I care to admit. It’s something about writing I can’t quite put into words. At least not anything meaningful or moving. So, it is simple: my dream job is to write stories that touch the reader. Provide the reader an opportunity to travel, feel, identify, or enjoy the snippets of life I depict in my stories.

I may never accomplish this dream; it’s one of those ideas we had as children that may be impossible to obtain. However, this doesn’t mean we shouldn’t try to fulfill them- not at all. We keep chipping away at them, and maybe one day, they will come true. Who knows?

During some research I did years ago, I came across the legend of Saint Rita. Here is an overall of the legend.

Saint Rita of Cascia, often called the “Saint of the Impossible,” occupies a special place in the hearts of the faithful worldwide. Born Margherita Lotti in the 14th century in Roccaporena, Italy, Saint Rita’s life journey is one of unwavering faith, resilience, and a profound connection with the divine. 

Early Life and Marriage:

Margherita Lotti entered the world in 1381 amidst Italy’s political upheaval and social change. At an early age, she expressed a deep desire to dedicate her life to God. However, she obediently followed her parents’ wishes and married Paolo Mancini, a man with a troubled reputation. Despite the challenges in her marriage, Saint Rita remained steadfast in her commitment to her vows and embraced her role as a wife and mother.

Widowhood and Religious Life:

Tragedy struck Saint Rita when both her husband and sons succumbed to a violent end. Widowed and grief-stricken, she sought solace in prayer and contemplation. In a remarkable turn of events, Saint Rita’s sons’ destinies took a divine twist – they died before seeking vengeance for their father’s murder, preventing a cycle of violence.

Following her family’s tragedies, Saint Rita sought entry into the Augustinian convent at Cascia. Her initial request was met with resistance, as the convent had reservations about admitting a widow with a connection to a violent family. However, it is said that Saint Rita’s perseverance and her ability to perform a miraculous feat involving a dried fig tree blossoming out of season convinced the sisters to accept her.

Life in the Convent and Miracles:

Saint Rita’s years in the convent were marked by profound devotion to prayer, penance, and acts of charity. She received the stigmata, wounds similar to those of Christ, a sign of her deep spiritual connection. Saint Rita is also renowned for her devotion to the Passion of Christ and her advocacy for peace and reconciliation.

One of the most famous miracles associated with Saint Rita is the episode of the rose. According to legend, Saint Rita requested a rose from her garden during winter; miraculously, a single rose bloomed in her hands. This act of divine intervention is often cited as a symbol of hope and the miraculous nature of Saint Rita’s intercession.

Canonization and Patronage:

Pope Leo XIII canonized Saint Rita of Cascia on May 24, 1900; her feast day is celebrated on May 22. She is venerated as the patron saint of impossible causes, abused women, and mourning parents. Pilgrims worldwide visit the Shrine of Saint Rita in Cascia, where her relics are enshrined, seeking her intercession for their troubles and tribulations.

Legacy:

Saint Rita’s life and miracles inspire millions of believers, offering a testament to the transformative power of faith and the enduring hope found in times of adversity. Her story serves as a beacon of compassion, forgiveness, and the miraculous, reminding us that the divine can bring about healing and redemption even in the face of seemingly insurmountable challenges.

Conclusion:

In the rich tapestry of Catholic saints, Saint Rita of Cascia stands out as a luminary figure, admired for her unwavering faith, resilience in the face of tragedy, and the miracles attributed to her intercession. Her legacy extends far beyond the boundaries of time and geography, resonating with those seeking solace, hope, and the miraculous in their lives. Saint Rita’s enduring impact underscores the universal human desire for connection with the divine and the belief that faith can light the way even in the most challenging circumstances.

Throughout my life, I’ve heard countless legends about multiple saints. None is less credible than the other. There’s beauty in our beliefs.

So, Saint Rita, can you help me keep the faith?

A Life of Integrity

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What is your mission?

It’s been quite some time since I associated the word mission with my life. However, looking back at that time and comparing it to now. Nothing has changed. I’ve always wanted to live a Life of Integrity.

Couldn’t you just save me one?

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If you could make your pet understand one thing, what would it be?
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Living with cats is so different from living with dogs. It took a minute to grasp that, but now I believe we have an understanding with each other; I think, maybe. Well at least the best understanding one could have with a cat.

Now when I raised dogs, I’m certain we had an understanding. They pretty much followed all their commands without hesitation, giving enough training and time. However, I remember my first Rottweiler could seem to grasp the concept of saving me at least one Oatmeal Creme Pie. No matter how hard I tried he would goggle them all up. Despite this, I still loved him dearly.

The Down & Dirty

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List five things you do for fun.

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I live a simple life. Due to this, several folks accuse me of being unable to have fun. At first, this consensus troubled me. For 30 seconds, I considered that I might need to adjust my lifestyle. Once I explained my former everyday life, some turned green, others turned pale, and then my favorites informed me I’d earned the right to relax. I appreciate them saying that. I really do.

Here are my five things in no order. I do them whenever I feel like it.

  • Reading
  • Writing
  • Listening to tunes
  • Mechanics
  • Woodworking

That’s it. That’s all of it. The down and dirty.

Truth, Justice, and The American Way

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Name an attraction or town close to home that you still haven’t got around to visiting.
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I’ve been lucky, blessed even to have been to most of the places people stare at in magazines, postcards, or the subject of a story you can imagine because you know you’ll never get to visit. I’ve also been to the places no one has ever heard of and wouldn’t admit they visited if they had.

Like many folks, I sat in front of my television watching him be faster than a speeding bullet, more powerful than a locomotive, and leap tall buildings in a single bound. I was mesmerized by the flying through the sky, the bullets bouncing off his chest, and, of course, his X-ray vision. We ordered the glasses from the back of our comics, along with seahorses, just for the chance to be like him. We tied blankets around our necks and jumped off mounds, running around with arms stretched in front of us, pretending we were flying.

My fascination with the Superman universe has continued throughout my adulthood. I’ve watched most things related to it. Here is a list of a few.

Here is an extended list of television shows related to the Superman universe:

  • Superman: The Animated Series – This series follows the adventures of Superman, the legendary superhero, as he battles the forces of villainy and continues his quest for “truth, justice, and the American way.”
  • Smallville – This series follows the adventures of a young Clark Kent in the town of Smallville, Kansas, before he becomes Superman.
  • Lois & Clark: The New Adventures of Superman – This series primarily focuses on the relationship between Daily Planet journalists Clark Kent and Lois Lane in Metropolis.
  • Supergirl – This series centers around Superman’s cousin, Kara Zor-El, who escaped the destruction of Krypton and now lives on Earth.
  • Superman & Lois – This series follows Clark Kent and Lois Lane as they deal with all the stress, pressures, and complexities that come with being working parents in today’s society.

Here are comprehensive details about the list of films related to Superman:

  • Superman (1978): This film, directed by Richard Donner, depicts Superman’s origin story, from his infancy as Kal-El of Krypton to his youthful years in the rural town of Smallville. Christopher Reeve stars as the titular character, with Marlon Brando and Gene Hackman also appearing.
  • Superman II (1980): Directed by Richard Lester, this sequel sees Superman agreeing to sacrifice his powers to start a relationship with Lois Lane. However, he is unaware that the three Kryptonian criminals he inadvertently released are now conquering Earth.
  • Superman III (1983): This third installment, directed by Richard Lester, introduces synthetic kryptonite laced with tobacco tar. This substance splits Superman into two distinct entities: the good-natured Clark Kent and the malevolent Man of Steel.
  • Superman IV: The Quest for Peace (1987): This film involves Superman leading a global crusade to eliminate nuclear weapons. With the Cold War as a backdrop, the Man of Steel faces off against Lex Luthor and the Nuclear Man.
  • Superman Returns (2006): Directed by Bryan Singer and starring Brandon Routh as Superman, this film follows the Man of Steel as he returns to Earth after spending five years in space examining his home world, Krypton.
  • Man of Steel (2013): Directed by Zack Snyder, this film provides a fresh take on Superman’s origin story. As a young man, Clark Kent learns that he has superpowers and must decide whether to use them for the benefit of humanity. Henry Cavill stars as Superman.
  • Batman v Superman: Dawn of Justice (2016): Also directed by Zack Snyder, this film features a face-off between two of the most iconic superheroes. Superman, again played by Henry Cavill, finds himself in conflict with Batman, played by Ben Affleck.

Of course, my children had to endure my Superman obsession. However, they helped me discover the place I never got around to visiting.

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I saw this statue from Interstate and vowed to return one day to look at it, but I have never done so. Since then, I’ve been out of the country several times and even passed by the statue several times. Maybe I will get there one day.

No Pressure

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Write about your first name: its meaning, significance, etymology, etc.
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Like many people our names are chosen with no idea why? Several of us are named after a relative we never met. Sometimes we carry names of relative that has been deceased for generations. Most of the people I know don’t a clue of etymology of their names. Madre Khan said she heard someone with my name and thought it was cool. So, today when I looked into the origin of my name. I was taken back a little. Let’s take a look at what I found.

The Meaning of Mangus

Mangus, a derivative of its Latin roots, holds a profound and significant meaning – “great.” This single term encapsulates many virtues, such as strength, honor, and greatness, depicting a person of high stature or noble character. The Latin lineage of the name lends it a timeless appeal, resonating with an aura of power, dignity, and regality. The name Mangus, therefore, transcends beyond just being a name; it mirrors character and virtue.

Cultural Implications of Mangus

Cultures worldwide often attribute a profound influence to names, shaping the character and destiny of the individual. Mangus, with its inherent connotation of greatness, can be perceived as a blessing and an expectation set upon the individual. It can be a guiding beacon, nudging the individual towards virtues of strength, honor, and nobleness. Consequently, the cultural implications of the name Mangus are significant and far-reaching, potentially influencing the individual’s life path and destiny.

Historical Significance of Mangus

The annals of history are replete with references to the name Mangus, associating it with figures of power, nobility, and great stature. This name has weathered the tests of time, retaining its relevance, significance, and reverence across different eras and epochs. The name’s historical significance further magnifies its meaning, reinforcing its virtues and attributes. Hence, Mangus symbolizes a rich historical legacy of power and greatness, etching its mark in the sands of time.

The Impact of Mangus in Contemporary Times

In today’s world, the name Mangus inspires awe and respect. Its timeless appeal and powerful meaning make it a popular choice for those seeking a name with depth and significance. The virtues associated with Mangus – strength, honor, and greatness – are universally admired and sought after, making the name a beacon of aspiration and inspiration. Moreover, the rich historical legacy and cultural implications associated with Mangus add depth, making the name even more appealing in the modern context.

Mangus in the Modern World

In the modern world, where names are often chosen based on their meaning and significance, the name Mangus remains popular. Its profound meaning of “greatness” and its historical and cultural importance make it a meaningful and inspiring name. Those who bear the name Mangus carry a sense of strength, honor, and greatness – virtues that are admired and respected in today’s society.

With my name meaning all this … wow, no pressure!

The Burden of Leadership

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What makes a good leader?
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When we have a conversation about leadership, one can find opinions and ideals with a few keystrokes. There are seminars, books, and articles thoroughly covering the subject. During my time in the military I read several in an attempt to find everything I could about becoming a better leader. I’ve listed a few below.

Principles of Leadership

  1. Lead by Example: Leaders should act in ways they expect their team members to emulate. The actions of a leader set the standards for their team.
  2. Be Transparent: This involves being open about plans, decisions, and challenges. Transparency encourages trust and creates an open work environment.
  3. Communicate Effectively: Leaders should provide clear, concise, and consistent communication. They should also be ready to listen and consider the input of their team members.
  4. Empower Your Team: Give your team the authority to make decisions. This promotes trust and loyalty and helps your team members to grow professionally.
  5. Show Empathy: Leaders should understand and share the feelings of their team members. A leader who shows empathy can build strong relationships.
  6. Encourage Creativity and Innovation: Leaders should foster an environment encouraging team members to think outside the box and develop innovative solutions.
  7. Be Adaptable: Leaders should be flexible and ready to change their plans. Being adaptable allows a leader to respond effectively to changes and challenges.
  8. Foster a Positive Environment: Leaders should create a positive and inclusive work environment. This can boost morale and productivity.
  9. Encourage Continuous Learning: Leaders should promote a culture of continuous learning and development. This helps team members to improve their skills and knowledge.
  10. Build Trust: Trust is crucial for effective leadership. Leaders can build trust by being reliable, honest, and open.

Key leadership traits, each with a brief description:

  • Integrity: This trait involves being honest and having strong moral principles. Leaders with integrity are trustworthy and ethical.
  • Confidence: Leaders need to show confidence in their decisions and actions. This helps to instill confidence in their team members.
  • Decisiveness: Good leaders can make decisions quickly and effectively, especially under pressure.
  • Courage: Leaders often need to take risks and make difficult decisions. This requires courage.
  • Passion: Leaders should be passionate about their work and their team. This passion can inspire their team members.
  • Humility: Effective leaders understand that they are not superior to their team members. They should be humble and ready to listen to others’ ideas.
  • Empathy: Leaders should understand and share the feelings of their team members. This can help to build strong relationships.
  • Resilience: Leaders often face challenges and setbacks. They need to be resilient to keep going and remain positive.
  • Self-awareness: Good leaders understand their strengths and weaknesses. They are open to feedback and willing to make changes.
  • Accountability: Leaders should take responsibility for their actions and decisions. They should also hold their team members accountable for their performance.

Being a leader is more than the things found in books or articles. Leaders aren’t born. They are developed. Titles or positions don’t make you a leader. Learning how to handle the burden of leadership does. Good luck!

RDP – Friday – Time

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Here is my response to today’s Ragtag Daily Prompt – Time

POETRY

Time

Sitting within the wondering of unknown destiny.
Riding the waves of the abyss of sorrow.
Like the sands of the hourglass, the moments of a promiseless
tomorrow slip away

But…

Have you heard the news today?

Our kinsmen…

Our brethren…

Has passed away

Not of blood, but of spirit

What is felt goes by many names
yet the pain
remains the same

Remember…

He has been called home
to sit alongside our Master
and his golden throne

Boundfull
dutiful
we are
to acknowledge his words of passion and grace

for they have

Lifted us…
Caressed us…
Consoled us…

I wish to thank all those who have taken the time to read the ranting of a feeble mind.

From my stoop, on my soapbox, I stare into the abyss, then begin reading my list.

Life is short…

So kiss it…
taste it..
Close your eyes and
Savor it…

But most of all

LIVE IT !!!

One minute at a time

I wrote this piece years ago after the writing community had lost one of its brethren. To me, he was gentle, but wise soul with so much to offer. The writing community took a blow that day.

It doesn’t matter about the existence of time, moments we spend with one another count. Make the moments we spend even with strangers matter. Humanity’s most precious gift to one another is their time.

I Remember When We Talked to One Another.

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If you could un-invent something, what would it be?

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I was in public today, watching people because I’m a people watcher. Not one of those creepy people who gawk at you with sinister smiles, but one who is entirely aware of their surroundings. A by-product of my PTSD. I noticed people were inches from one another and weren’t talking. Their faces were buried in their mobile devices. What freaked me out was that nearly everyone, young and old. Myself included. Immediately, I looked around for a magazine or left behind newspaper. There weren’t any.

I opened a document on my iPad and started documenting my outrage. Yes, I’m aware of the hypocrisy of this rant, but it was either my iPad or my phone. So, I ended up at a diner with the intention of finishing this post, but I got sidetracked. There was a veteran eating with his wife, and I struck up a conversation with them. Though I don’t know the couple’s names, I learned his family had served in the military in various capacities for four generations, starting with WWII.

We began to discuss the rudeness of society and how no one talks to one another anymore. We laughed about how we get in trouble with wives and so much more. I closed my iPad and just enjoyed the conversation. They left and tried to remember the last time I had a decent conversation with a stranger. I remember today’s occurrence wasn’t a rarity but the norm.

For those who know me personally, what I’m saying may shock you. Most of you have never seen me with some sort tech in my hands. I purchased my first mobile device in the early nineties. And now I wish we could un-invent them. Even as I write this post, I have something processing on multiple devices. I started writing code in the mid-eighties. So, I’ve been working with tech in one or another for over 40 years.

I’ve witnessed or been a part of miscommunication issues; it’s ridiculous. Why can’t we just talk to one another?

Below is a bit of prose I wrote over fifteen years ago; I feel it is still relevant today. Especially the closing line, I believe, sums up my feelings on the matter.

Archaic

The pulsing glow fades on your monitor. Closing the door is one’s outlet, portal, or means to escape. Escaping the insanity that is sometimes right outside your front door. Sometimes, sitting right there in your living room, sitting on your couch looking crazy, talking about some “what?”

Thinking back, one would take a walk, read a book, or sip some lemonade while sitting on the front porch. Sitting wondering what the hell your neighbor is wearing or just sitting there letting the night breeze caress you into a calm?

Saddened, we are by the daunting realization that a clever array of ones and zeros now defines our existence. Once complete, syllable vocabulary is reduced to an abbreviation of some unknown order. Deviance is becoming the norm, as the once social norm is fading into a deviant wasteland.

Identities expanded behind hexadecimal veils in fleeting hopes of discovering who we are. All the while, all that is necessary is to stand in front of the mirror facing the face they have come to hate. Yearning for some form of validation of who you are or what you are. Searching for answers that can only be found within ourselves.

If surrendering one’s identity is the price we must pay in the pursuit of progress, then may I forever be archaic.

Yeah, they’re a pain, but I love them.

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Can you share a positive example of where you’ve felt loved?
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I’ve been fortunate enough to have a network of people in my life who let me know daily I’m loved. They have no problem letting me know when I’m full of crap or any other adjective they choose to use at any given time. I can’t blame them or hold any ill will because I’m a handful, as they say.

You may remember a post I made last year about two individuals who were geniuses. If not, here is a link to that post. What I didn’t tell you is these incredible women have been putting up with my crap for well over a decade. Every rant, tantrum, or foul mood, they have endured it all. They have been with me while I was grief-stricken from the loss of my wife. They were there when I rebuilt myself as a writer and educator to witness me self-destruct through my battle with cancer.

My closest and dearest friend, my editor, you’ve heard me complain about on several occasions on this blog. She put down her red pen and helped me through my cancer battle. She stopped everything and came to the initial surgery. Then she returned for my cancer’s aggressive reemergence. 56 treatments later, I took her home and started to rebuild my life once again. Honestly, I would have been a basket case without her support through all of this madness.

A few years ago, I could barely breathe, and my lady showed up and put a foot in my butt and got me back on my feet. Mumbling something about she couldn’t leave it to me to get proper medical attention. Now, that wasn’t the vernacular she used during her time here. I’m sure you can imagine what was said to a stubborn person such as myself. Their words, not mine. I’m an utterly compliant person. I assure you.

It can’t be easy to deal with me, but their devotion, compassion, and love mean everything. It may even seem at times I don’t appreciate you, but that couldn’t be further from the truth. I love you and appreciate you both; never doubt this. Yep, you guys are a pain, but I love ya.

Sitting Still Long Enough

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Where can you reduce clutter in your life?
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What I’ve learned over the years in regards to clutter is you never know how much crap you have accumulated until you get ready to move. Also, I discovered the things in the basement, the storage unit, and the garage. You probably don’t need it. I’m aware that somehow we find justification to keep these forgotten treasures or the unknown items contained inside labeled “Misc.” So do your best to load the unnecessary items and take them to your local charity or consignment store.

Let’s change direction for a minute. We are still discussing the reduction of clutter but in a different way.

“The unexamined life is not worth living”
― Socrates

I’ve come to realize that the area with the greatest need for decluttering is one’s self. I’ve been ill these last few months, and it doesn’t seem I’m going to get any relief in the near future. However, I’ve had an opportunity for self-reflection. Let me tell you, some wickedness has been passing through my mind. Despite this, I’ve had moments of clarity.

I’ve taken the time to really look at what I need to live my best life. I need to take the time to let go of my preconceptions about myself and the world around me. This isn’t as easy as it sounds. I find self-examination to be the most challenging endeavor I ever embarked on. It’s going to be a work in progress. Yet, it is a task worth doing.

Once you let go of your internal baggage, I believe you can tackle the basement, storage unit, or garage with a clear mind and spirit. You just might be able to get something done.

~thank you for reading~

Werewolves of London

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What is your favorite animal?
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As a kid, my favorite animal was a dog. Then I watched Ole Yeller and Sounder, and suddenly, the idea of caring for a dog seemed less appealing. Though I’ve had various versions of man’s best friend. I couldn’t help but be enthralled by the mystic of werewolves. In 1981, I was catapulted into the lure of werewolves with the movie American Werewolf in London.

This fascination evolved into my love for wolves. All variations. Quietly, I’ve read many articles over the years, watched documentaries, and read books on wolves.

Image by WorldInMyEyes from Pixabay
Image by WorldInMyEyes from Pixabay
A clip I put together from stock footage I collected over the years

I can’t explain my fascination with wolves. I can’t explain what makes me stop in my tracks and soak in the beauty of this majestic creature. Perhaps I yearn for its power, its grace, or its presence. No matter, I have to make do with the gifts I possess.

I Remember Dial-Up

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In what ways do you communicate online?
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Yesterday, I stood in line at a local store when the computer system went down. After a wave of groans and disapproving looks, the manager assured us the system would be online shortly. This didn’t help the groans. I understood a possible reason for the atmosphere. We were in the middle of a snowstorm, and the conditions were worsening by the second. However, examining the crowd, I’m pretty sure they would have been complaining regardless. Complaining is the latest trend, like yoga pants and foo-foo coffee.

The system took longer than expected, and the manager declared, “It’s like dial-up!” I shook my head, “Not even close,” I corrected. We had a laugh; the system was up a few seconds later, and all was right in the world. Within a few minutes, the grandson and I were inside, safe and warm.

I see this prompt, and I’m reminded of how impatient we all have become since the advancements of technology. Despite this, I pretty much communicate the same way I did at the start of all this. Other than things being a helluva a lot faster, I’m the same guy. I’ve added social media stuff from time to time, but I basically avoid it. With the exception of Twitter, there is a writing community over there that I’ve been a part of for nearly a decade.

So when things get crazy … I just think … I remember dial-up

Living Room Vinyl

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Describe an item you were incredibly attached to as a youth. What became of it?

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The item I was most attached to as a child was my mother’s album collection. I spent hours listening to her music. It was my mother’s love for music that shaped mine. The Madre turned me on to some of the greatest music classics.

My first concert was with George Benson. I had no idea what jazz was, but I liked what I heard. This love led me to explore more of her albums. Stanley Turrentine, Spyro Gyra, and Ramsey Lewis are a few examples.

I found my Madre jamming to Boz Skaggs, The Doobie Brothers, and Steely Dan. None of my friend’s mothers listened to the same music as my mother. As I listened to the radio, I heard many of the songs that played nights in the living room.

Of course, we had the standards playing in the house. Al Green, Billy Paul, Issac Hayes, and Teddy Penderness. As I dug deeper into her collection, I found some gems I wasn’t expecting: Johnnie Taylor, Solomon Burke, and Otis Redding. My taste kept growing. Soon, I discovered Billie Holiday and Nina Simone.

Then, I discovered what I wanted to be as an adult: a radio disc jockey. I had the knowledge of music and the voice, so why not? Like a lot of childhood fantasies, nothing real becomes of it. I deejayed a few parties and even had a pirate radio show with an army buddy, but I realized my talents were more in tune with writing.

What became of the Madre’s collection?

Well, what’s left of it is stored in my living room. The most important part is that I share its influence with you most days. Well, that’s it for this post, but it wouldn’t be right if I didn’t leave you with a little something.

Here’s a little Otis Redding Live

Singing aloud is allowed. Perhaps, even required!

More a Treat than a Snack

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What snack would you eat right now?
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I remember when I was feeling down as kid, my mother would drag my butt over to our local DQ and get me one of these masterfully crafted desserts of deliciousness. She always knew just the right time to take me to get one. It never seemed like I knew the exact time. But I’m thinking I might need one today. It’s been a rough couple of months.

Questions Like These…

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What could you do differently?
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Questions like these make me roll my eyes and shake my head. It seems like the next thing they will be asking is,

“What does it all mean?”

What’s my place in the world?”

And more nonsense questions. I have this attitude because it is the decisions we make that cause us to become who we are.

Sure, we have situations in life we would like to do-over or take back. It’s just the nature of life. However, neither of those things are possible. So, when someone asks questions like these. I respond with the following question:

“You’ve had your entire life to prepare for this moment … why aren’t you ready?”

Every decision we have made in life has led to where we are … the good, the bad, and the ugly. Do we really want to change anything?

As always,

~thanks for reading~

Something Like This …

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Daily writing prompt
If you had a freeway billboard, what would it say?
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Perception is our Reality

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Do you spend more time thinking about the future or the past? Why?
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As a writer of a certain age, I spend time thinking about the past for several reasons. Sometimes, things that happened in the past make interesting ideas that may form a basis for a story. Other times they may lend an expected scene. Typically, I use the past in the following areas in regards to writing.

  • Character Development
  • Plot
  • Theme
  • Resolution

Utilizing the memories of past experiences has crucial in some of my successes as a writer. I have to keep in mind, I must let the story tell itself. I know that may sound strange, but experience has taught to never force anything.

As a man, I often refer back to situations, to see if I still them the same as I did initially. On several occasions, I found some insight hidden in the corners of my psyche. It had been there the entire time. It was just waiting for me to understand what I looking at and why.

The Most Intimate Gift

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What is the greatest gift someone could give you?
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I’ve been fortunate to have received some amazing gifts throughout my life. However, that depends on how the word “gift” is defined. Most of the time, when talking to others, I find gifts to be defined as something tangible. Something one can display on a desk or show someone. I would define these sorts of gifts as awesome, wonderful, or cool; maybe? Yet, neither rise up to the occasion of the “greatest.” I think if you take a moment and think about it, you may agree with me or not.

However, the greatest gift to me is when someone gives you their time. Time is a precious commodity, something you can’t get back. Well, at least not right now; give me another ten years; the machine I’m building should be thoroughly tested and ready for the public. Until then, I view the time people choose to spend with us as special and intimate. I know I may be a little bent on this point, but it seems to be working.

Distance Learning: The School of Hard Knocks

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What colleges have you attended?
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In a previous post, I discussed autodidactic learning. It’s this method of education I’m most familiar with. However, I always wanted to obtain a college degree of some sort. For whatever reason, I convinced myself I wasn’t smart enough to achieve my goal. As I was torn between my beliefs and desires, I spent considerable time trying to further my education. Throughout the years, I attended several colleges utilizing distance learning platforms.

I attended schools located in the following states:

  • Illinois
  • Maryland
  • Virginia
  • Texas
  • Minnesota
  • Florida
  • Tennessee

In most cases, I wasn’t anywhere near the campus. Eventually, I got over my fear and finished my undergraduate degree. I consider my education journey as “The School of Hard Knocks.” If I had believed in myself earlier, achieving the first step of my goal wouldn’t have been so challenging. Throughout my journey, I learned much about life, the world, and, most importantly, myself. Let’s take a moment to explore some of the benefits of distance learning.

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Distance learning, also known as online education, has become increasingly popular in recent years. With advancements in technology, more and more people are turning to distance learning as a convenient and flexible way to further their education. Recently, we see online education being used to educate our children. Technology has made online learning a viable option for achieving an education.

Flexibility

One of the most significant advantages of distance learning is its flexibility. Distance learning allows students to conveniently access course materials and lectures, unlike traditional classroom settings. This flexibility is particularly beneficial for individuals with other commitments, such as work or family responsibilities. Distance learning allows students to create their study schedules and learn at their own pace, making it easier to balance their personal and professional lives.

Moreover, distance learning allows students to study from anywhere in the world. The constraints of a physical classroom do not bind them, and they can access their coursework from their homes or while traveling. This level of flexibility allows learners to adapt their education to their individual needs and circumstances.

Accessibility

Another advantage of distance learning is its accessibility. In traditional education, individuals who live in remote areas or have physical disabilities may face challenges in accessing educational institutions. Distance learning eliminates these barriers by providing access to education regardless of geographical location or physical abilities.

Through online platforms, students can participate in classes, submit assignments, and interact with instructors and fellow students from anywhere in the world. This accessibility opens up opportunities for individuals who may not have had access to education otherwise. It also fosters a diverse and inclusive learning environment where students from different backgrounds and cultures can exchange ideas and perspectives.

Furthermore, distance learning allows individuals to pursue their education while juggling other responsibilities. Many students who are working full-time or taking care of their families find it difficult to attend traditional on-campus classes. Distance learning allows them to continue their education without compromising their other commitments.

Cost-Effectiveness

Distance learning can also be a cost-effective option for many students. Traditional education often involves additional expenses such as commuting, accommodation, and textbooks. Students can save on these costs by studying from their homes with distance learning.

Additionally, many online courses and programs are more affordable than their on-campus counterparts. This affordability makes education more accessible to a broader range of individuals, regardless of their financial circumstances. It also allows students to explore a variety of courses and programs without worrying about the financial burden.

I Don’t Have Time for This … I’m a Grown @$$ Man.

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Do you play in your daily life? What says “playtime” to you?

While working on my undergraduate degree, I had the Psychology of Play course. I immediately tried to drop the course as a grown-ass man; I had no time for play. The idea was ridiculous. The whole affair was an utter waste of time. It was a required course, so I had no choice but to complete this buffoonery. Over the preceding weeks, I actually learned a great deal about “play,” and the only buffoon; was me.

Play is a fundamental aspect of human behavior that has intrigued psychologists for decades. From childhood to adulthood, play serves various purposes and significantly impacts our mental and emotional well-being.

The Benefits of Play

Play is not just a frivolous activity; it serves several important purposes. One of the primary benefits of play is its role in promoting cognitive development. When we engage in play, our brains are actively processing information, problem-solving, and enhancing our creativity. Play provides:

  • A stimulating environment for learning and exploration.
  • Allowing us to develop essential cognitive skills such as problem-solving.
  • Critical thinking.
  • Decision-making.

Moreover, play also aids in the development of social skills. Through play, we have interaction, cooperation, and conflict-resolution opportunities. Whether playing team sports, engaging in cooperative board games, or participating in imaginative play, we learn how to communicate effectively, work together, negotiate, and compromise. These social skills acquired through play are crucial for building and maintaining relationships in childhood and adulthood.

Play as a Stress Reliever

Play has the remarkable ability to alleviate stress and promote relaxation. When we immerse ourselves in play through sports, games, or hobbies, our minds focus on the present moment, diverting attention from daily worries and concerns. This mental shift allows us to recharge, reduce anxiety, and improve our overall mood.

Engaging in play also activates the release of endorphins, commonly known as “feel-good” hormones, which further contribute to stress reduction and a sense of well-being. The enjoyment and pleasure derived from play can act as a natural antidote to the pressures and demands of everyday life, providing us with a much-needed escape and a sense of rejuvenation.

The Therapeutic Power of Play

In recent years, psychologists have recognized the therapeutic potential of play. Play therapy has emerged as a valuable tool in helping individuals, particularly children, express their emotions, cope with traumatic experiences, and develop problem-solving skills. Playing allows individuals to explore difficult situations in a safe and non-threatening environment, leading to emotional healing and personal growth.

Play therapy allows individuals to communicate their thoughts and feelings symbolically, making expressing and processing complex emotions easier. Through play, children can act out scenarios, create narratives, and use various play materials to represent their experiences and emotions. This process helps them gain insight, develop coping strategies, and resolve their challenges. Play therapy can be a transformative experience, enabling individuals to overcome difficulties, build resilience, and improve their overall well-being.

Conclusion: Nurturing the Playful Spirit

In conclusion, the psychology of play reveals its profound impact on our lives. Play enriches our mental and emotional well-being, from cognitive development to stress relief and therapeutic benefits. As we navigate through the complexities of life, it is essential to nurture our playful spirit and make time for activities that bring us joy and fulfillment.

We should embrace play as an integral part of our lives, regardless of age or responsibilities. Whether it’s engaging in recreational activities, pursuing hobbies, or simply allowing ourselves to be spontaneous and playful in our daily lives, we can experience the transformative effects of play.

So, let us prioritize play, create opportunities for playfulness, and uncover the immense benefits it has to offer. We can enhance our cognitive abilities, strengthen social connections, reduce stress, and promote emotional well-being by fostering our playful spirit. Let play be a source of joy, creativity, and personal growth.