We tend to think of teachers as just the ones in the classroom. But they’re not the only ones, are they? The truth is, our education doesn’t start in a classroom—and it certainly doesn’t end there either.
I didn’t really get what teachers were about when I was younger. To be honest, I was probably a pain in the neck to deal with. I look back now and realize I owe every one of them an apology. They showed up every day. They put up with kids like me—kids who thought they had it all figured out—and still tried to teach us something real. That takes more than patience. That takes purpose.
I raised four kids. There’s a reason I’ve got a bald head and a gray beard. And those were my own kids. Teachers deal with dozens of kids every day, each with their own story, their baggage, their chaos. And they do it with little supplies, low pay, and almost no credit. They improvise. They stretch. They hustle. And still, they show up.
It wasn’t until I began training soldiers that I truly began to understand. I was working with adults—grown people, trained to follow orders—and it was still a challenge. Getting through to them, helping them grow, managing all the different personalities and egos? Not easy. Now think about doing that with a room full of kids. Every single day.
Then came the workshops. Then mentorship. Years of teaching and guiding—and here’s the truth that finally hit me: we’re not just teachers. We’re also students. I know, that sounds simple. Obvious even. But here’s where it gets sticky. Oh no, Mangus is about to say something weird.
I submit that we’re both teacher and student at the same time.
You can’t teach well if you’re not also learning. Every interaction, every mistake, every person you try to help teach you something. And if you’re paying attention, it changes how you teach. It humbles you. It sharpens you.
So yeah, classroom teachers are incredible. They deserve way more respect than they get. However, the truth is that we’re surrounded by teachers all the time. And we’re teaching too, whether we realize it or not. If you’re doing it right, every day you’re learning something new—even as you’re passing something on.
That’s the loop. That’s the truth. And once you see it, you never look at “teaching” the same way again.
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