I recently returned to writing about music over at House of Tunage for Song Lyric Sunday, and somewhere along the way the piece stopped being simply about a song.
It became about communication, deployments, marriage, friendship, jazz, old phone calls, and the strange emotional architecture music builds around our lives.
Sometimes songs don’t just soundtrack periods of your life.
Sometimes they quietly become part of the wiring.
World Telecommunication and Information Society Day celebrates humanity’s ever-growing ability to communicate across distance. From the telegraph to satellites to smartphones, the world has become increasingly connected. Messages that once took weeks or months to arrive can now cross oceans in seconds. For most of my career, I worked in telecommunications, installation, and repair, so the subject hits a little closer to home for me than it might for some people.
I spent years helping people stay connected. Funny thing is, nobody ever calls telecom repair because life is going well emotionally.
The first song that came to mind when I saw this week’s theme was Communication Breakdown by Led Zeppelin. Technically, it didn’t fit the criteria. No telephones. No operators. No lonely voices waiting beside rotary phones. Still, the song felt strangely relevant.
Listening to it now, the frantic energy sounds less like a collapsing relationship and more like modern life itself. Notifications. Endless digital noise. Half-finished conversations happening across multiple screens while people sit in the same room barely acknowledging each other.
Then my mind drifted toward Nobody Home by Pink Floyd, a quieter and far more haunted reflection on isolation. A room full of objects. A television humming softly in the dark. A phone existing mostly as decoration while loneliness settles into the wallpaper.
That song introduced me to feelings of isolation and loneliness I would eventually come to know all too well.
During one stretch of my career, I spent so much time away on assignments that my wife once joked — with more frustration than humor — that our house had become the place I visited.
Looking back, “Nobody Home” makes a lot more sense to me now than it did when I was younger.
Still, as powerful as the song remains, this week’s theme kept pulling me toward something warmer. Less about isolation and more about connection.
So naturally, I asked Guppy.
She yawned, looked vaguely disappointed in my inability to solve my own problems, and demanded treats for emotional support.
Somewhere between bribing the cat and overthinking the assignment, I remembered a conversation I had over the weekend with a group of teenagers who were genuinely interested in learning about music. Not trends. Not algorithms. Music.
One young man mentioned jazz.
Now that got my attention.
And somewhere in the middle of that conversation, I remembered When Sly Calls by Michael Franks.
And suddenly the theme made sense.
The full essay explores how one song became tied to communication, deployment, marriage, memory, and the emotional weight hidden inside something as simple as hearing the right voice at the right moment.
Continue reading at House of Tunage.
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It’s so true…music heals releases defines remembers associates ties gens together ex in you are the world…and even now a song becomes popular because it resonates with many. Nothing mives my soul like music..could be instrumental and I can cry buckets…even if ive never heard it before. Music accompanies every stage of life. Love this.
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