
Personal Reflection
It sounds like something you hear at a rally.
Something meant to get people moving.
But the longer I sit with it, the less it feels like a slogan and the more it feels like a warning.
We spend a lot of time waiting.
Waiting for the right moment.
Waiting for the right person.
Waiting for someone else to fix what feels broken.
Waiting feels safer than acting.
Because if you’re waiting, you can still believe change is coming from somewhere outside you.
There’s a quiet kind of fear in realizing nobody is coming.
No rescue.
No perfect opportunity.
No moment where everything suddenly makes sense and you finally feel ready.
Just you.
Your choices.
Your voice.
Your willingness to move even when you don’t feel prepared.
That realization can feel heavy at first.
Like the responsibility just got handed back to you whether you wanted it or not.
But there’s another side to it too.
If no one else is coming…
then no one else gets to decide who you become.
Maybe the point isn’t that we have to do everything alone.
Maybe the point is that change starts the moment we stop waiting for permission to begin.
Reflective Prompt
Where in your life have you been waiting for the right moment instead of becoming the one who creates it?
Never… I have always pushed the needle and demanded change. I was an events planner always anticipating. Now I create conversations with communities and city government. I create change everyday rarely waiting for anyone. I am also the seventh of eight children.
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