Personal Reflection
Most people chase knowledge like it’s armor — how to read a room, how to outthink, outmaneuver, outlast. But Lao Tzu wasn’t speaking to the mind that conquers. He was warning the mind that hides.
Knowing yourself isn’t gentle work. It’s the slow dismantling of every story you’ve been told about who you’re supposed to be — the cultural scripts, the self-help slogans, the identities you inherited and performed until they hardened into skin. When you peel all that away, what’s left isn’t serenity. It’s fear. Vulnerability. Indecision.
And that’s the point. Those aren’t flaws to fix — they’re evidence that something real is surfacing. We were never meant to overcome fear; we were meant to understand it. Vulnerability isn’t weakness; it’s the seam where truth leaks in. Mastery, in the truest sense, isn’t dominance over emotion but intimacy with it. It’s standing inside your own uncertainty and not reaching for a mask.
The work of self-knowledge doesn’t happen all at once. It’s a lifetime of dissolving illusions at the speed of honesty — a slow unlearning of the urge to control. Enlightenment isn’t an event. It’s the moment-to-moment practice of not turning away from what you find.
Power isn’t the absence of weakness. It’s the courage to remain whole in the presence of it.
Reflective Prompt
When the performance falls away, what remains that’s still you?
What truth waits behind the fear you keep calling failure?
Sit with that — not to fix it, but to finally hear what it’s been trying to tell you.

All those years ago when everything was stripped away, there wasn’t much left that I liked. I rebuilt my life, no more pretence, what you saw was what you got. I can live with that. I do live like that. I like the person I am now.
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that is so awesome, Di
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Thanks Mangus.
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I don’t know if I’ll ever know myself. I’m changing all the time.
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Just by saying this, means you know yourself better than most
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