
Personal Reflection:
We endlessly scroll on our phones, clawing at lives we’ll never touch—hell, half the time we don’t even like the people we’re obsessed with. It’s easier to stitch ourselves into their noise than to face our own silence. Wilde nailed it: we’ve got an insatiable hunger for everything except the truths that would actually matter. We are so obsessed with chatter that when we finally stumble into silence, it feels disturbing—like a room we’ve been avoiding, thick with dust and mirrors.
But here’s the twist: knowledge itself isn’t the villain. It’s what saves us from rotting out from the inside. Yet so many times we fixate on the pain, the negative edges, that we forget its light. Knowledge shapes, heals, even redeems—if we let it. The real question is what we do with it. Do we boast, turn wisdom into a weapon, another badge to flex? Or do we wear it quietly, let it humble us? Maybe humility has become just another antique word, pressed flat between the pages of old books—respected in theory, ignored in practice.
Wilde’s quote still burns, but maybe the truer madness is this: not that we ignore what’s worth knowing, but that when we finally grasp it, we don’t know how to carry it.
Reflective Prompt for Readers:
When was the last time you let silence speak instead of filling it with chatter?
And when knowledge found you, did you use it to posture, or did you let it humble you?
Sit with the unease: are you chasing noise, or carrying wisdom in a way that matters?
I tend to yak when I’m nervous, but have learnt when to keep quiet.
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I smoke and ramble about absolutely nothing. Thanks Di
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Hubby and I both quite in 1991 so that we could start married life as non smokers. I had one puff that Christmas as someone gave me a cigarette at a party and I was furious with myself as I ground it out.
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I’m so close to quitting its ridiculous. However, something is holding me back. I get pissed off at myself if I smoke more than my daily allotted amount. Quitting drinking was easy, and I enjoy single malt scotch way more than cigarettes. Makes no sense.
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We had something else to think about when we quit, and apart from that one stupid puff in December that year, we haven’t been interested . Mind you at £15 for 20. we couldn’t afford it anyway! I think you have to be in the right mindset to quit so maybe the time isn’t right for you yet.
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thank you
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