Reflection:
Every writer, every artist, knows the siren call of approval. The dopamine hit of likes, the quiet hope of validation, the thought that maybe this piece will finally land. But Connolly’s words cut through the illusion: if you bargain away your voice for acceptance, what remains of you when the clapping stops?
Writing for yourself isn’t selfish — it’s survival. It’s how you stay tethered when the noise of the world tries to define your worth. It’s not about rejecting the audience, but about refusing to let the audience become the compass. To create is to risk being unseen. But to create only for others is to risk being erased.
Prompt for readers:
What would your art look like if you stopped chasing approval and created with no audience in mind—just you, the page, and your truth?
Memoirs of Madness 